So I'm genderfluid and I'm thinking of converting to Islam. I'd like to find some other non binary Muslims to talk to but I don't know where to go or where to start, other than non binary question blogs and just hoping I get lucky.by dusty-soul
Not a question, but I was looking for a gender neutral name and your list was very helpful. Thanks much.by Anonymous
No problem, anon :)
Got a question that you might have some experience with. My brother and his GF have been together for years, with two kids now, but have never been married. He even calls her his wife now and then, just for simplicity. For all intents and purposes they are married, but they are not legally married. It's just not a priority for them. We were discussing what her parent's titles would be. They're not in-laws because they are not married according to the law. Is there a term for SO's parents?by Anonymous
I’d personally just stick with in-laws, for the same convenience. I refer to my dad’s girlfriend as my step mum because “dad’s girlfriend” sounds distant, as if I don’t like her, but I love her and “step mum” gives her a direct relation to me.
I identify as agender. A huge amount of people have told me that I have to be asexual, aromantic, and I have to dress without gender at all. I find this really confusing because I DO have sexual attractions and feelings, I AM romantically attracted to my partner, and when I'm out I plan on dressing androgynously. I don't know, I'd just like some clearing up from someone that won't scream at me if I ask something. Thanks - Shay
I have no idea why people think someone agender would have to be asexual and aromantic - it’s like saying binary people have to be heterosexual, really, there’s no set sexualities for genders.
Gender isn’t the same as gendered presentation. How would you dress without any gender at all when people gender all clothing? Dress however makes you most comfortable.
Hey! so, I'm trying to put together a master post of trans support and advice blogs - I'm mainly lookign for advice, safe spaces, resources,e tc. Is it okay if I include you on it? And can you suggest any others that I can include? Thanks - Riv.
Yes, definitely! I’m not sure, I used to have a page of links but most of them broke. Followers, which blogs would you suggest?
To the anon hater with nothing better to do than insult trans people:
I’m really sorry you don’t get enough attention, or have the guts to say things off anon. I had a great childhood, and while I don’t have ‘homosexual’ sex because I’m pansexual, I’ve been having AMAZING same-gender sex (that we do actually jokingly refer to as gay sex) for just over a month.
I don’t normally engage with trolls but I did kinda wanna brag about the sex XD
Anon- you can't be pangender unless you are a PoC because it includesPoC-only IDs. Polygender would be what youre looking for unless youre Native and stuffby Anonymous
This is what the discussion was about - and the fact that it’s almost certainly impossible to be part of ALL the cultures with exclusive gender IDs.
Can I ask why Princex is POC exclusive? is it because it was created by a POC person?by otherkings
It was created by a POC with the intent that it be POC-exclusive - being POC-exclusive is part of it’s definition, part of what they created it to mean.
from what i have learnt from the pangender IDing people i know, generally i have heard it to mean "one who identifies as all genders possible within their *personal* cultural understanding of gender." so like, if their particular culture does not have "two-spirit", for example, that is not included in their personal definition of pangender, if that make sense... no two pangender individuals are the same in the same way that no two non-binary individuals are the same.by Anonymous
Thanks, anon :)
I think pangender means all/many genders in the way that pansexual means attraction to all/regardless of gender. Pansexuals aren't attracted to every single person in the world & pangender dont feel every gender in the world, just a kinda broad gender id that can fluctuate over all parts of the spectrum - except those genders that are part of specific cultures. Which I think is literally impossible for a pangender person to be. I would ID as pangender but i want the definition cleared first.by Anonymous
Thank you anon :)